Mastering the Structure of an Evidential Mediumship Reading: A Step-by-Step Guide

So, you’ve been developing your mediumship, practicing your connections, and now you’re wondering—what does a structured evidential reading actually look like?

Should you just start talking and hope for the best? (Hint: No.)Do you need to follow a rigid format? (Also no, but structure helps.)

Evidential mediumship is an art—it’s about delivering information from spirit in a way that is clear, organized, and emotionally meaningful. And while every medium works differently, having a solid structure can make all the difference in keeping your readings focused and powerful.

Let’s break it down step by step, so you can confidently navigate a professional evidential mediumship reading—without getting lost in your own head.

Step 1: Preparing for the Reading

Before you even start the reading, your own energy and mindset matter.

1. Set the Intention

• Before connecting, take a deep breath and mentally state your intention.

• Example: "I invite the highest and best evidence from spirit for the sitter’s healing and clarity."

• This helps you align with spirit and focus your energy.

2. Create the Right Environment

• Minimize distractions. (No barking dogs, beeping notifications, or interruptions.)

• Ground yourself. (A few deep breaths, light movement, or quick meditation can help.)

• Have water nearby. (Talking to spirit is thirsty work!)

Once you're ready, it's time to begin the spirit link.

Step 2: Opening the Reading – Making the Link

Now, the real fun begins!

Your first goal is to establish a strong connection with spirit and deliver a few key details that help the sitter recognize who’s coming through.

1. Identify the Spirit

Start with the big three:✔️ Relationship (“I have a father figure here”)✔️ Cause of passing (“He had heart issues”)✔️ Physical description or personality (“He was tall, broad, and loved making people laugh”)

Keep it short and snappy—your sitter shouldn’t be sitting there confused about who it is.

2. Validate with Key Evidence

Once you have their attention, get specific.

• Names or initials (“I’m hearing the name Robert—does that connect?”)

• Important dates (“I’m drawn to the 14th of a month—either a birthday or passing”)

• Memories (“He’s showing me fishing trips you used to take together”)

💡 Pro Tip: Spirit might not give you an exact name, but they might give you a sound—Bob, Bobby, or something similar. Stay open!

Once your sitter recognizes and confirms the connection, you’re ready to move deeper into the evidence.

Step 3: Expanding the Evidence

This is where your mediumship skills shine. Now that your sitter knows who’s here, it’s time to bring that spirit to life.

1. Give Emotional & Personality-Based Evidence

Facts are great, but emotions make the reading memorable.

• Was the spirit funny, quiet, serious, or outgoing?

• Did they have a signature phrase, favorite song, or quirky habit?

• How did they express love when they were alive?

💡 Example: "I know this man loved practical jokes because he’s showing me putting salt in your sugar bowl!"

✔️ The more personality you bring through, the more your sitter feels the presence of their loved one.

2. Let Spirit Take the Lead

Once you've established strong evidence, ask spirit what they want to talk about.

Spirit will often bring up recent events in your sitter’s life, proving they are still present.

Examples:

• “Your mum is showing me that you recently moved house—she says she was there!”

• “Your brother is mentioning a new tattoo—did someone just get one in his memory?”

✔️ This is where readings go from 'good' to 'WOW'—when spirit proves they are still around.

Step 4: The Message – Why Has Spirit Come?

At this point, you’ve delivered strong evidence, and the sitter knows who’s communicating. Now, what’s the message?

1. Spirit Always Has a Reason for Coming Through

Some messages are simple:💛 “I love you and I’m still with you.”

Some are more specific:💡 “Mum wants you to know she approves of your new relationship—she’s nodding and giving a thumbs up.”

✔️ Avoid generic ‘they love you’ messages—tie it to the evidence you’ve already given.

Step 5: Closing the Reading

When you feel the energy naturally start to fade, it’s time to wrap up gracefully.

1. Confirm Any Final Thoughts from Spirit

• “Your dad is giving you a big hug—he’s so proud of you.”

• “Mum wants to leave you with a red rose as a symbol of love.”

2. Thank Spirit & The Sitter

• “I want to thank your loved ones for coming through today.”

• “Thank you for allowing me to share this connection with you.”

✔️ A smooth ending keeps the reading feeling complete and positive.

Bonus: Troubleshooting Common Issues in Readings

😬 What if I get a 'No' from my sitter?

• Stay calm—don’t panic!

• Ask spirit to clarify or reframe the information.

• It might be a memory they’ve forgotten—sometimes nos turn into yeses later!

😨 What if I go blank?

• Take a deep breath and reconnect.

• Ask spirit for a new way to communicate the message.

• Don’t force it—sometimes silence is part of the process.

🧐 What if my sitter is closed off?

• Not everyone is ready to receive messages.

• Focus on delivering the evidence, not convincing them.

• Move on if the energy isn’t flowing—don’t force a bad reading.

Final Thoughts: Why Structure Matters in Mediumship

Having a clear structure helps you:✔️ Stay focused and confident.✔️ Deliver stronger evidence.✔️ Create an emotional, healing experience for the sitter.

But remember—mediumship isn’t a script.

💡 Let spirit guide you, stay open, and trust the process.

Because at the end of the day, it’s not just about giving evidence—it’s about bringing through the love, presence, and personality of those who have passed.

And that’s where the real magic happens. ✨

💬 Have you ever struggled with structuring a mediumship reading? What works best for you? Let’s chat in the comments!