One of the most common questions people ask a medium is, “Can you tell me what’s going to happen?” And as much as I’d love to say, “Yes! In precisely six months, you’ll meet a mysterious stranger who loves dogs and owns a bakery,” that’s just not how it works.
Mediumship is about connection, guidance, and validation—not fortune-telling. So, let’s bust this myth wide open and talk about what mediumship can actually do for you.
Why Mediums Can’t Predict the Future (And Why That’s a Good Thing)
The future isn’t set in stone. It’s shaped by our choices, actions, and—let’s be honest—our occasional ability to completely ignore good advice. Spirit isn’t here to hand us a script; they’re here to guide us as we navigate life’s twists and turns.
Think about it—if a medium told you that you were destined to marry someone called Steve, you’d spend the next five years interrogating every Steve you meet instead of actually living your life. That’s not guidance; that’s self-imposed chaos.
Spirit wants you to live, not to sit around waiting for predictions to come true. Free will is everything, and that’s why mediumship focuses on empowering you to make your own choices rather than dictating your future.
So, What Can Mediumship Do?
Bring Through Messages from Loved Ones
Mediumship isn’t about gazing into a crystal ball; it’s about connecting with the spirit world and bringing through evidence that your loved ones are still around. It’s about comfort, reassurance, and those beautiful “Oh my God, that’s so them!” moments.
Help You Understand Your Current Energy
Spirit can give insights into where you are emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Maybe you’re stuck in a job that drains you, or you’ve been ignoring your intuition about a relationship. They won’t tell you exactly what to do, but they’ll nudge you towards making the decisions that serve you best.
Offer Guidance (Not Absolute Answers)
Instead of handing you a detailed life plan, spirit will offer perspectives, opportunities, and clarity. They might highlight patterns in your life, encourage you to trust your gut, or give you the confidence to take the next step—whatever that looks like for you.
Remind You That You’re Not Alone
One of the most powerful aspects of mediumship is knowing that our loved ones are still with us, supporting and cheering us on. When you realise that you’re never really alone, it changes everything.
Mediumship is About Empowerment
The best mediums don’t take away your personal power—they help you reclaim it. They don’t tell you what to do; they help you tune into your own inner wisdom. Mediumship is a tool for self-awareness, healing, and growth—not a quick fix or a magical future map.
Want to Strengthen Your Own Connection to Spirit?
If you’re ready to deepen your understanding of spirit and develop your own intuitive abilities, The Gateway is where you need to be. It’s my online spiritual development platform where you can practice mediumship, connect with like-minded people, and build your confidence in working with spirit.
Join us today and start working with spirit rather than waiting for them to hand you all the answers! Visit www.mediumshipmatters.co.uk to find out more.

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