The Role of Love and Laughter in Spirit Communication

The Role of Love and Laughter in Spirit Communication

If you think spirit communication is all hushed voices, candlelit rooms, and people solemnly nodding while scribbling on notepads, I hate to break it to you—you’ve been watching too many Hollywood films. Because while spirit work can be profound, moving, and deeply emotional, it’s also packed with love, lightness, and a good dose of laughter. Yes, laughter. And if you’re not embracing that, you’re missing one of the most beautiful aspects of working with spirit.

Why Love is the Foundation of Spirit Communication

Love is the highest vibrational energy we can access. It’s the glue that connects us to the spirit world, the thread that runs through every message, every whisper, and every sign from our guides and loved ones. When we work with spirit, we’re stepping into an energy field of unconditional love—an energy that sees us for who we truly are and holds us in complete acceptance.

If you’ve ever had a proper, heartfelt mediumship experience, you’ll know what I mean. That feeling of overwhelming warmth, the certainty that your loved ones are still with you, the deep emotional healing that can come from a single, perfectly timed message—that’s love in action. Spirit operates from love, always. They don’t turn up to judge you for how many biscuits you ate last night (thankfully), nor do they arrive with a clipboard full of criticisms. They come to support, to guide, and to remind you that you’re never alone.

But What About Laughter?

Now, here’s where some people get stuck. "Surely spirit is serious? It’s all about deep messages and life-changing moments, isn’t it?"

Yes, but also no.

Love and laughter go hand in hand, and spirit loves to bring joy, humour, and cheeky little nudges when they can. If you were to move into the spirit world tomorrow, would you suddenly become a solemn, robe-wearing monk, only speaking in cryptic riddles? Or would you still have your same sense of humour, your same quirks, and the same way of teasing your loved ones? Exactly.

Spirit Knows You, and They Know How to Make You Laugh

Spirit communication is real communication. That means it reflects real relationships—complete with sarcasm, inside jokes, and a bit of playful banter. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve given messages where a spirit’s personality shines through loud and clear. Granddads making cheeky remarks about their family, mums rolling their eyes in a way only their children would recognise, best friends passing on a message that’s laced with the same humour they had in life—it’s all part of the magic.

Sometimes, spirit even gives us the giggles during readings. It might be through an unexpected phrase, an image that makes no sense to anyone but the sitter, or a memory that’s so specific and ridiculous that it has to be real. And that laughter? That joy? That’s evidence too. It’s a sign that your loved ones haven’t changed, that they’re still them, just without the dodgy knees and bad backs.

How Love and Laughter Strengthen Your Connection to Spirit

1. They Raise Your Vibration – Spirit communication happens on a higher frequency, and love and laughter naturally lift us up to meet them. If you’re feeling heavy, sad, or doubtful, your connection can feel distant. But bring in love and joy? That’s when things start flowing.

2. They Make Messages More Evidential – A message that carries personality, humour, and a specific quirk is far more powerful than a vague "they love you." It’s the difference between knowing someone is there and knowing exactly who is there.

3. They Help You Relax – The more you relax, the easier it is to connect. If you’re taking it all too seriously, trying too hard, or getting in your own way, your energy becomes tense. Spirit doesn’t want you to stress. They want you to feel open, uplifted, and connected.

4. They Show You That Spirit is Life-Affirming – Mediumship isn’t about death. It’s about life. The continuation of it, the celebration of it, and the undeniable truth that love never dies. Laughter is part of that truth. It reminds us that connection is eternal and that even on the hardest days, joy is still available to us.

Final Thoughts (And an Invitation!)

If you’re on this journey and want to deepen your connection with spirit in a way that feels natural, loving, and full of light, The Gateway is the perfect place to do it. My online spiritual development platform is all about building real, evidential connections with spirit—without the fluff, the fear, or the need for incense and chanting (unless you really want to). Inside The Gateway, you’ll find live practice sessions, expert guidance, and a supportive community of like-minded people who believe in the power of love, laughter, and great mediumship.

Join us today and experience for yourself how love and laughter can transform your connection to the spirit world. Visit www.mediumshipmatters.co.uk to find out more!