If you’re on the journey of developing your mediumship, you’ve probably had those moments where it all just clicks—the evidence flows, the connection feels effortless, and you think, I’ve got it!
Then, the very next reading… nothing. Silence. Doubt creeps in. You wonder if you’re making it all up. Maybe you’re not meant to be a medium after all?
Sound familiar?
Every medium has been there. But the biggest mistake I see developing mediums make—one that causes inconsistency, frustration, and unnecessary self-doubt—is this:
They Focus on 'Getting' Instead of 'Allowing'.
Mediumship isn’t about getting messages. It’s not about hunting for evidence or forcing a connection. The moment you step into that energy of “I need to get something” is the moment your power starts to shrink.
Think about it—when you’re desperate to receive a message, what happens? You tighten up, your logical mind jumps in, and suddenly, spirit feels a million miles away.
But when you’re relaxed, open, and just allowing the connection to unfold? That’s when the magic happens.
Why 'Getting' Blocks the Flow
It Creates Resistance When you’re trying too hard, you’re not in the energy of spirit—you’re in your own head. Spirit communication is subtle. It requires receiving, not forcing.
It Shifts Your Focus to Yourself If your attention is on “Am I getting something?” rather than “What is spirit showing me?”, you’re already out of alignment. Mediumship isn’t about you—it’s about them.
It Kills Trust The more you push, the less you trust. And trust is everything in mediumship. If you’re constantly second-guessing, doubting, or analysing, you’re not allowing spirit to simply work with you.
How to Fix It
If you’ve been caught in the cycle of trying to ‘get’ messages, don’t worry—this is a simple (but powerful) shift to make.
Relax and Expand First Before you start any reading, take a moment to sit in the silence. Let your energy grow. Connect first—then let spirit come to you.
Focus on Receiving, Not Proving Stop asking yourself, What am I getting? and start asking, What am I noticing? A tiny shift in perception can make a massive difference.
Trust the First Impression Spirit communicates quickly. That first flash of an image, that sudden thought, that random memory popping into your head—it’s all part of the language of spirit. Don’t dismiss it!
Stay in the Flow Instead of stopping to analyse, keep moving. Say what you see. Say what you feel. Don’t judge it—just allow it.
Final Thoughts
Mediumship isn’t about grabbing information—it’s about receiving it. The more you relax and allow spirit to work through you instead of forcing the connection, the stronger and more consistent your mediumship will become.
So, next time you sit for a reading, take a deep breath. Expand. Trust. Allow.
And watch how your connection transforms.

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