Mediumship Ethics: The Importance of Integrity in Spiritual Work

Let’s talk about something that often gets tucked behind the glitter of crystals and the warm glow of Himalayan salt lamps: ethics in mediumship. Sure, spirit connections, goosebumps, and jaw-dropping validations are thrilling, but behind every “oh my goodness, how did you know that?!” moment should be a solid foundation of integrity.

Why Ethics Matter in Mediumship

Mediumship isn’t just about flexing your intuitive muscles. It’s about serving others with respect, compassion, and a hefty dose of common sense. Imagine going to a medium, expecting comfort, and instead getting a doom-and-gloom prophecy about your future. (No thanks, Susan.) That’s why ethics matter—because words have power, especially when they’re delivered under the banner of spiritual authority.

Key Principles of Ethical Mediumship

1. Respect for the Living and the Spirit World: Mediums are bridges between two worlds, but that doesn’t mean they get to stomp all over boundaries. Respect means treating both the sitter and spirit with dignity, whether the message is light-hearted or deeply emotional.

2. Consent Is Non-Negotiable: Delivering unsolicited readings is like spiritual spam mail. Just because you can tune in doesn’t mean you should. Always ask for permission before offering insights—nobody likes an unexpected download when they’re in the supermarket queue.

3. Accuracy Over Performance: Mediumship isn’t a talent show. It’s okay to say, “I’m not getting anything right now,” rather than feeling pressured to fill the silence with guesses. Integrity means prioritising truth over theatrics.

4. Handling Sensitive Information with Care: Sometimes spirit shares deeply personal information. It’s not your job to be dramatic; it’s your job to deliver messages with compassion and discretion. Think trusted confidante, not reality TV confessional.

Common Ethical Pitfalls (and How to Avoid Them)

• Predicting Deaths or Health Diagnoses: Just... don’t. You’re a medium, not a medical professional or the Grim Reaper’s spokesperson.

• Feeding Fear: Messages should empower, not terrify. If a message leaves someone feeling hopeless, it’s time to check your delivery (and maybe your source).

• Money Matters: Charging for your time and energy? Absolutely. Overcharging vulnerable people because you claim to have a direct line to Archangel VIP? Not cool.

The Role of Continuous Learning

Ethical mediumship isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being self-aware and committed to growth. Keep learning, stay humble, and regularly check in with yourself: Am I serving spirit and sitters with the highest integrity?

Final Thoughts (Because Spirit Loves a Good Wrap-Up)

Mediumship is a sacred practice. It’s about healing, connection, and bringing comfort. But without ethics, it can easily veer into ego-driven territory. So, whether you’re a seasoned medium or just starting out, remember: your integrity is your superpower. Use it wisely.