The Problem with Spiritual Entitlement: What Mediums Wish You Knew

Hello, beautiful souls! It’s Hannah Macintyre here, and today we’re diving into a topic that might ruffle a few feathers but is absolutely worth discussing: the problem with spiritual entitlement and what mediums (like me) really wish you knew.

What Is Spiritual Entitlement?

Spiritual entitlement is that sneaky belief that spirit communication owes you something. It’s when people expect messages on demand, answers served up like a cosmic vending machine, or think that having a reading guarantees specific outcomes. Spoiler alert: The spirit world doesn’t work like Amazon Prime. There are no guaranteed next-day deliveries.

The Signs of Spiritual Entitlement

1. Expecting Specific Messages: “If Grandma doesn’t mention her favourite teacup, this isn’t real.” Spirit isn’t here to perform party tricks. They bring through what you need, not always what you want.

2. Treating Mediums Like Customer Service: “Can you connect with my dad, and also ask him where I left my keys?” Mediums aren’t Siri for the afterlife. We facilitate communication, but spirit has its own agenda.

3. Demanding Proving Evidence: Coming into a reading with crossed arms, thinking, “Go on then, impress me.” Spirit doesn’t respond well to auditions.

4. Ignoring the Message Because It’s Not What You Wanted: Sometimes spirit brings through tough love. If you dismiss guidance because it’s not wrapped in glitter and rainbows, you might be missing the point.

Why This Is a Problem

Spiritual entitlement blocks genuine connection. When you’re focused on controlling the outcome, you close yourself off to the actual magic. Mediumship is about trust, openness, and receiving with gratitude, not ticking boxes on a checklist.

What Mediums Wish You Knew

1. Spirit Communication Is a Gift, Not a Guarantee: Each message is sacred. Appreciate what comes through, even if it’s unexpected.

2. Mediums Are Messengers, Not Magicians: We can’t summon spirits like ordering coffee. We open the door, but spirit decides who walks through.

3. It’s About Healing, Not Just Proof: Messages are meant to support growth, healing, and connection—not just validate your curiosity.

4. Your Energy Matters: Come with an open heart. Spirit works best in an environment of trust and respect.

How to Shift from Entitlement to Empowerment

• Be Open: Let go of specific expectations.

• Practice Gratitude: Every message, big or small, holds value.

• Trust the Process: Spirit knows what you need, even if you don’t.

• Reflect: If you feel disappointed, ask yourself, “What was I hoping to hear, and why?”

Final Thoughts

Mediumship isn’t about perfection; it’s about connection. When you release entitlement, you create space for authentic, meaningful messages. So, the next time you book a reading, come with an open mind, an open heart, and let spirit do what spirit does best—surprise, heal, and guide you in ways you never expected.