How Your Energy Affects the Quality of a Spiritual Reading

How Your Energy Affects the Quality of a Spiritual Reading

Hello, my lovely spiritual explorers! Today, we’re diving into a juicy topic: How your energy affects the quality of a spiritual reading. Yes, you—sitting there with your cup of tea, wondering if that sceptical eyebrow raise is affecting your aura. (Spoiler: It is.)

The Triangle of Communication: Spirit, Medium, and You

Let’s start with the basics. Imagine a triangle. On one corner, you’ve got the spirit world—those cheeky loved ones, guides, and energetic beings who are trying to send messages. On another corner is the medium (that’d be me), doing my best to be a cosmic telephone line. And the final, often underestimated, corner? You, the sitter.

Your energy is just as important as mine and spirit’s. Think of it like baking a cake. If the spirit world is the flour, I’m the eggs, and you’re the sugar. Without all three, it’s not going to rise properly, and no one wants a flat, sad cake of a reading.

High Vibes vs. Arms-Crossed Scepticism

If you come into a reading with open-hearted curiosity, a willingness to engage, and maybe even a dash of excitement, your energy lifts the whole process. It’s like adding glitter to the cosmic mix. The connection feels lighter, clearer, and more vibrant. You’re not just a passive receiver; you’re an active participant in the energetic flow.

But if you sit there like you’re judging a bad karaoke performance, arms crossed, waiting to be “convinced,” it’s like trying to tune into a radio station with a dodgy signal. The messages get fuzzy. Spirit’s knocking, but you’re basically shouting, “I don’t believe you!” through the door. Guess what? They’re polite, so they’ll hesitate.

Don’t Feed the Medium, But Don’t Starve Them Either

There’s a fine line between giving too much information and being so tight-lipped I start wondering if I’m reading for a statue. Yes, mediums love a good challenge, but we’re not auditioning for “Psychic Britain’s Got Talent.” A nod, a smile, or even a polite “Yes, that makes sense” helps keep the energy flowing.

Imagine trying to tell your friend a story while they stare blankly, offering zero reaction. Awkward, right? Now imagine you’re doing that with spirits. They’re over there, waving their metaphorical arms, and you’re giving me your best poker face. It makes the connection harder, not because the spirit isn’t there, but because the energy is stuck in a cosmic traffic jam.

Expectations: The Silent Energy Blocker

Another sneaky culprit? Expectations. If you come in determined to hear from Uncle Bob and only Uncle Bob, you might miss the fact that Aunt Sheila has barged in with life-changing wisdom. The spirit world sends who you need to hear from, not always who you want to hear from.

Keep an open mind. Spirit knows best, even if it means your childhood hamster comes through to say hi before your nan does. (Yes, it happens.)

The Bottom Line:

• Be open. Think of your reading as a two-way conversation, not a test.

• Stay relaxed. The more comfortable you are, the smoother the connection.

• Engage (lightly). You don’t need to spill your life story, but a little feedback helps.

If you want to explore how to raise your energy and deepen your connection, come join me on The Gateway. We dive into all these juicy topics, with plenty of laughs and a sprinkle of spiritual sass. See you there!