Hello, beautiful souls! Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s as necessary as sage at a full moon ceremony: discernment in the spiritual community. Yep, that little inner voice that says, “Hmm… something feels off here,” even when everyone else is nodding enthusiastically.

What Is Discernment, Anyway?

Discernment is your spiritual BS detector. It’s that gut feeling, intuitive nudge, or internal side-eye that helps you separate genuine guidance from glitter-covered nonsense. Think of it as your spiritual sat-nav, steering you away from dodgy detours.

Why It’s So Important in the Spiritual Community

Let’s be honest: the spiritual world is full of magic, wisdom, and authentic connection… but it also has its fair share of smoke, mirrors, and people who claim to have a direct hotline to the universe (with a hefty price tag, of course).

Discernment helps you:

• Avoid spiritual scams and manipulation.

• Recognise authentic teachers from self-proclaimed gurus.

• Stay grounded in your own truth, even when others are shouting theirs.

Red Flags to Watch For

1. The “I’m the Only One with the Answer” Vibe: Anyone claiming to be the exclusive gatekeeper of divine wisdom is a walking red flag. Spirit isn’t handing out VIP memberships.

2. Over-Promising Magic Fixes: If someone guarantees that their crystal, course, or overpriced potion will solve all your problems instantly… run. Healing is a journey, not an Amazon Prime delivery.

3. Fear-Based Tactics: “If you don’t buy this, your aura will collapse!” No, Susan, my aura is fine. Authentic spirituality empowers, not terrifies.

4. Excessive Ego: Confidence is great. Superiority complex? Not so much. If someone needs constant validation of how “powerful” or “enlightened” they are, it’s probably more about their ego than spirit.

5. Lack of Accountability: Watch out for people who deflect all responsibility. “It’s not me, it’s your energy that’s the problem” is a classic cop-out.

How to Strengthen Your Discernment

1. Trust Your Gut: If something feels off, it probably is. You don’t need a spiritual justification to walk away.

2. Question Everything (Yes, Even Me):Healthy scepticism isn’t negativity; it’s wisdom. Ask questions. Seek clarity. If someone gets defensive, that says more about them than you.

3. Stay Grounded: Spirituality isn’t about floating off into the ether. Ground yourself in practices that keep you connected to reality.

4. Reflect, Don’t React: When you feel triggered, pause. Is it discomfort from growth, or is your intuition waving a red flag?

**Final Thoughts **

Discernment isn’t about being cynical; it’s about being conscious. The spiritual path is beautiful, but it’s not without its potholes. Trust yourself. You’re wiser than you think.

And remember: if someone tries to convince you they’re the ‘chosen one,’ smile politely, back away slowly, and maybe throw a bit of salt over your shoulder… just in case.