What Happens in a Mediumship Circle?

For many people, the idea of a mediumship circle feels intimidating.

You might imagine being put on the spot, expected to perform, or asked to do something you don’t feel ready for. This uncertainty alone can stop people from exploring further, even when they’re genuinely curious.

In reality, a well-run mediumship circle is structured, supportive, and far more ordinary than many people expect.

What a Mediumship Circle Is (and Isn’t)

A mediumship circle is a learning environment.

It’s designed to help people understand and develop awareness gradually, with guidance and boundaries. Circles are not about proving anything, producing dramatic experiences, or being “good” at mediumship.

They are not performances, auditions, or tests.

A healthy circle prioritises learning, grounding, and reflection rather than outcomes. So, what happens in a mediumship circle?

What Typically Happens in a Circle

While every circle is different, most follow a clear and calm structure.

This often includes:

• grounding or settling at the beginning

• simple awareness or attunement exercises

• guided practice, often optional

• discussion and reflection

• clear closure at the end

Participation is usually encouraged but not forced. Many people begin by observing and listening before actively practising.

You Are Not Expected to Perform

One of the most common fears is being asked to “come up with something.”

In responsible teaching environments, there is no pressure to produce messages, impressions, or results. Silence, uncertainty, and learning are all part of the process.

Mediumship development is not about proving ability. It’s about understanding how awareness works over time.

Circles Are About Safety and Boundaries

Good circles are built around clear boundaries.

This includes:

• defined start and end times

• guidance around when awareness is engaged and released

• respect for personal limits

• an emphasis on everyday grounding

You should never feel overwhelmed, exposed, or pressured. If a circle feels fear-based or chaotic, it’s appropriate to step back.

Who Circles Are For

Mediumship circles are often helpful for people who:

• feel curious but unsure

• want structure rather than guessing

• prefer learning with guidance

• value discussion and reflection

You don’t need to identify as a medium, and you don’t need prior experience. Many people attend simply to understand their awareness more clearly.

In-Person and Online Circles

Both in-person and online circles can be effective when they’re well-structured.

Online circles offer accessibility and flexibility, while in-person circles provide shared physical space. Neither is inherently better — what matters is clarity, pacing, and guidance.

If You’re Considering a Circle

If you’re new, it can help to first understand What Is Mediumship? and revisit the Start Here: New to Mediumship guide so you have context.

Choosing a circle that feels calm, grounded, and respectful is more important than choosing one that promises fast results.

Exploring Further, Gently

If you’d like to explore mediumship in a supportive way, there are several gentle options available. The Mediumship Matters podcast offers grounded conversations around spiritual development. The Gateway is my online school, designed to support learning with structure and clarity. The Mediumship Matters Mini Guides provide short, focused reading on specific aspects of mediumship, while Spirit Social offers a modern community space to share experiences and feel supported as you explore.