Hello, beautiful souls! Today, we’re diving into a topic that ruffles feathers faster than a sceptic at a spirit demonstration: trusting spirit and why mediumship isn’t about proving anything.
Let’s be honest, the moment you tell someone, “I’m a medium,” there’s a good chance they’ll lean in with that sceptical squint and say something like, “Oh yeah? Prove it.” (Cue dramatic eye-roll.)
Mediumship Isn’t a Party Trick
Contrary to popular belief, mediumship isn’t like pulling a rabbit out of a hat. We’re not human Wi-Fi routers who can summon your great-aunt Ethel on demand. Spirit doesn’t work that way, and frankly, neither do we.
The spirit world isn’t here to entertain or satisfy someone’s curiosity. It’s about connection, healing, and love. If you’re looking for a magic show, Vegas might be more your vibe.
Why the Need to Prove Feels Draining
It Shifts the Focus: When you’re trying to “prove” something, your energy gets tangled up in performance anxiety rather than authentic connection. Spoiler: Spirit doesn’t thrive in that environment.
It Feeds Self-Doubt: Even seasoned mediums can feel the wobble when faced with scepticism. The need to “prove” can pull you out of flow and into your head—and that’s not where spirit communicates.
It Misses the Point: Mediumship isn’t about convincing people. It’s about offering messages with integrity, whether someone chooses to believe or not.
Trusting Spirit (Even When It Feels Wobbly)
Trusting spirit means surrendering the outcome. It’s knowing that the message you’re receiving is what’s needed, even if it doesn’t get the reaction you expect. It’s understanding that spirit knows what they’re doing—they don’t need us to micromanage.
Trust the Process: You might not always get ‘wow-factor’ evidence. Sometimes it’s simple, but profoundly meaningful.
Detach from Validation: Whether someone nods enthusiastically or gives you a blank stare, it doesn’t change the truth of the connection.
Stay in Your Lane: You’re the messenger, not the convincer. Deliver with love, and let go of the rest.
The Freedom of Not Needing to Prove Anything
When you release the pressure to prove, magic happens:
Your connection deepens: You’re more open, relaxed, and receptive.
You’re authentic: No need to embellish or force messages. Just be real.
You enjoy it more: Mediumship feels less like an exam and more like the sacred, beautiful practice it truly is.
Final Thoughts (A Little Spirit Pep Talk)
Trusting spirit isn’t about being perfect. It’s about showing up, doing your best, and allowing spirit to do the rest. Some people will believe, some won’t. That’s not your job to control.
So, the next time someone says, “Prove it,” smile, take a deep breath, and remember: you’re not here to perform. You’re here to connect.
And trust me, spirit’s got your back.
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