What It’s Like to Be a Medium in a Family of Non-Believers

Hello, lovely souls! Today, we’re diving into a topic that hits close to home for many of us navigating this spiritual journey: what it’s like to be a medium in a family of non-believers. Spoiler alert—it’s a mix of awkward silences, dodged questions, and the occasional, “So, can you talk to my dog?” at family gatherings.

The Early Days: “It’s Just a Phase, Right?”

When I first embraced my mediumship, my family’s reactions ranged from polite nods to the kind of blank stares you get when you mention Mercury retrograde to someone who thinks astrology is just about daily horoscopes.

• Mum: “That’s nice, dear. Just don’t quit your day job.”

• Dad: “Can you get the lottery numbers, then?”

• Siblings: “Is this like that show with the psychic detective?”

Ah, family support. Warm and fuzzy with a side of scepticism.

Family Gatherings: The Unofficial Entertainment

Family events are fun. You’re minding your own business, sipping tea, when suddenly:

• “So, do you sense anything around me right now?”

• “Oh! Aunt Mabel believed in that stuff too. She had a crystal ball and everything.”

• “Quick, read my energy. Am I going to get that promotion?”

It’s like being the party trick nobody asked for but everyone expects.

The Challenges of Being the “Weird One”

1. Walking the Line Between Authenticity and Acceptance: You want to be true to yourself without starting a family debate over dinner. (Because nothing pairs with roast potatoes like existential discussions about the afterlife.)

2. The “Prove It” Requests: “If you’re really a medium, tell me something no one knows.” Sorry, Uncle Dave, spirit doesn’t do party tricks on command—especially not while I’m trying to enjoy my trifle.

3. Feeling Isolated: It can be lonely when the people closest to you don’t understand your connection to spirit. You start to feel like the odd one out, even when you’re surrounded by loved ones.

The Silver Linings (Yes, There Are Some!)

1. Unintentional Growth: Being around sceptics sharpens your confidence. You learn to stand firm in your truth without needing external validation.

2. Surprising Conversations: Over time, even the most resistant family members might open up. A casual, “Do you really believe in that?” can lead to deep, meaningful chats.

3. Living Proof: When they see the impact of your work on others—the healing, the comfort, the undeniable connections—it speaks louder than words ever could.

How to Navigate Family Dynamics as a Medium

• Set Boundaries: It’s okay to say, “I’m off duty right now.”

• Lead with Love, Not Convincing: You’re not here to convert anyone. Just be authentically you.

• Find Your Tribe: Even if your family doesn’t get it, there are plenty of like-minded souls who do. (Hello, Gateway community!)

Final Thoughts (Because I Love a Mic Drop Moment)

Being a medium in a family of non-believers isn’t always easy, but it’s part of the journey. You don’t need their validation to honour your path. Trust in your connection, stand in your truth, and remember—sometimes the biggest lessons come from those who challenge us the most.

And if all else fails, just smile, sip your tea, and let spirit do the talking.